this pretty bad man. Its like you guys are having 2 different conversations. She is very clearly telling you that she cant do this weekend. But shes free next week. Pushing harder like you did can only work against you in situations like that. The smart call is to just do next week. Like when she said "also i have an anesthesiologist next week" you replying with great how does 6:30 sound was just extremely uncalibrated and that level of un-calibration and needyness/pushyness will be a turnoff to most girls. I would give it at least a week. If you dont hear back from her, you can try "i generally didn't take for the flakey type or the skeleton meme.
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this pretty bad man. Its like you guys are having 2 different conversations. She is very clearly telling you that she cant do this weekend. But shes free next week. Pushing harder like you did can only work against you in situations like that. The smart call is to just do next week. Like when she said "also i have an anesthesiologist next week" you replying with great how does 6:30 sound was just extremely uncalibrated and that level of un-calibration and needyness/pushyness will be a turnoff to most girls. I would give it at least a week. If you dont hear back from her, you can try "i generally didn't take for the flakey type or the skeleton meme.
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I was being pushy because I thought her only concern was the red fairy. Also another mastermind member recommended me to push for the meetup asap.
The miscalibration on my part was me misunderstanding her text.
Didn't know this would be a potential dealbreaker for her.
Thanks for the feedback man :)