WEEKLY LIVE Q&A (Sunday 6PM-8PM EST) with ME & IndianPE************************

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avilench . Avatar

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Welcome to the weekly live Q&A with IndianPE

Have all your questions answered in real time by the creator of PWF and Indian PE (If you're not familiar with him, check out this 2 part interview I did with him)..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIN8SOjOd4U

This will start Sunday July 28 at 6pm EST and go for 2 hours. Just write your questions below in this post. See you guys then :)

Alex

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13 Posts (+9), 79 Cmts (+26)

How do you see the future of Tinder and online dating in the next 1, 3 and 5 years?
With tinder doubling its boost prices, top profiles saying they have issues for example in AUS, etc.

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avilench . Avatar

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Good question. I think one of 3 things are gonna happen.

  1. Tinder will still stay King and the other apps will continue competing for a small segment of the market (least likely scenario in my opinion)

  2. Some other app will come along and take most of Tinder's market share, making Tinder as outdated as match.com (most likely scenario)

  3. People in general will move away from dating apps to something that is slightly different, like Instagram. Dating apps will still exist of course, but be the thought of almost the way we think of OkCupid (I don't think this will happen either, because apps in general seem to be the way of the future. Tinder has made some mistakes and it makes the most sense that another app will come along and correct those)

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13 Posts (+9), 79 Cmts (+26)

Thanks. Why do you see Tinder losing to losing to other apps? Why would girls migrate to other apps?

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13 Posts (+9), 79 Cmts (+26)

What's your take on Anthems? Do they matter? I usually have something mildly sexual, a bit less popular but still mainstream on it. ofc also like the song.

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avilench . Avatar

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They don't really matter. Just don't have anything super embarrassing on there

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  1. Can you give more examples on how to not come off as overgaming? I see lots of posts where you say "It's too gamey" but I want to understand this mindset.
    What exactly makes the convo too gamey. Is it using too many witty lines? I want to be able to catch myself if this happens, so what can I start doing instead to take a step back. For example... She asks you "How many girls did you approach before me?" it would be considered too gamey if you reply with "Yeah you know about 100 girls including my grandma" instead of being genuine and just saying "Nah dont worry. Just you." like that or would that be a shit response?
    Would love more insight about this!

  2. Question about "I'm busy" girls!
    I get this a lot! Majority of girls I talk to say the same thing. Is it just a way for her to reject you nicely? If I was interested in a girl I wouldn't say "Sorry I'm so busy at this time. Maybe next month" they also tend to take 24 hours to reply to 1 text. I never double text until after at least 24 hours but after doing a few takeaways "best texter award goes to.." and then eventually "Look! if your not interested let me know and ill move on", instead of just telling me shes not interested, she just says sorry im busy and frames me as if im mad and says "Why are you so mad. I'm busy in real life and don't check my phone much" and then I tell her "I understand my job keeps me busy too, lets talk on the phone for a bit to confirm when we can meet" but then I didn't call because she didn't respond promptly.
    What are your thoughts and your own personal experience about this? How can I know if im doing something wrong when I get this?

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avilench . Avatar

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  1. It's a matter of prioritization. She's just not prioritizing you. Which is to be expected since you have never met and dozens of guys are bombarding her. I find that generally taking a middle road is the best with these kinds of situations. What I mean by that is, I'll be patient, but not too accommodating. I don't drop a chick if she flaked on me once or twice. Or if there are periods where she will take long to respond. I'll just play a little bit of game myself and sometimes make her wait for my response. However, my rule is that the third time she flakes/reschedules, I do a call out. If you do a call out, the first time she flakes, she might just think you are too needy/demanding. However, if you never do a call out, she will think you're a giant pushover. However, if you do it the third time, she's likely to respect you because she knows that she is "in the wrong"

Also, her saying she's too busy could be that she has an unanswered concern/objection. Once I address their objection, she magically was no longer busy.

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avilench . Avatar

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  1. Yes, being too gamey is an essence using lines that you heard/read somewhere or just thinking of too many "witty lines" on your own. For instance, in that "How many girls have you approached", I would just respond with "Don't worry, you're the only one that matters". It's a bit gamey, but it's not extremely gamey which would be something more like "100, my mom, my sister, my grandma, my aunt, my second great bus driver. Do you want me to keep going? Or can we proceed with our love?". Even that could work. The goal isn't so much to completely avoid gameyness, but it's toning it down to the level where the girl sees you as a normal relatable human being. And not some kind of flamboyant weirdo. If you watch me interact in real life, I actually say a good amount of witty shit and some of it is kind of out there, but, the moment I sense that the girls "weird" thermostat is starting to go up, I drop it (unless I'm drunk) and go back to normal conversation
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For IndianPE. What is it do you think that hooks girls onto you when out cold approaching? Do you actively try to not show negative characteristics of the typical Indian stereotype like nerdy, no good communication skills, creepy and try to overtly show that? What is it that you do you vs some guy with very high smv does when doing cold approach

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Indian  PE Avatar

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Very good question. When I first got into game, I had terrible grooming and used to let my bald head grow on the sides while wearing nerdy glasses. And even though it felt like I was hooking sets, it wasn't going anywhere. I started observing friends and other guys who seemed good with girls. Then I started focusing on fashion and completely did a 180 on it. I get compliments from girls all the time that I have a good fashion and that I smell good.

The point I'm making is that the first impression always matters. And now, I make sure every night my beard is in shape, My head is completely shaved and more importantly I wear good fashion and contacts. All this clubbed with good body language and speaking slowly and loudly gets me to atleast a sexual hook with most of the girls. I manage to AMOG/steal girls from much better looking guys all the time

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13 Posts (+9), 79 Cmts (+26)

Love this.

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2 Posts (+5), 16 Cmts (+7)

Great listen!

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2 Posts (+0), 38 Cmts (+29)

Do you think sliding instagram dms is viable way to game online?And if it is
How would you change your game relative to tinder?
How would you select which girl you ll send massage(maybe example of opening massage)?

Thanks in advance.Great content btw!

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

Yes, it is viable provided that you have a good instagram. If your IG is shit, then no amount of textgame will yield results. In terms of how it is different than tinder, the main difference is that there is no "social contract" that you and the girl like each other. It is like the cold approach of online game. I wouldn't go too sexual too fast and would wait before investment/attraction is established before doing any sort of takeaways. Exact openers don't really need to change. I would just avoid anything overtly sexual and if you have anything in common (especially friends), then lead with that. As far as picking which girls to message, I would just select one that has less than 10k followers and lives in the same city as you or one nearby

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2 Posts (+0), 38 Cmts (+29)

Cool.Im guessing advice for good IG profile are similar to those of tinder ?

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23 Posts (+21), 65 Cmts (+28)

Responses to chicks that trying to frame you as creepy or weird (i.e. shame you)for your sexual bio?
(I guess she read the bio after we matched)

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

"Would you prefer if I were shy and timid?"

Something that flips the frame

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