Was It Right To Send This

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J

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J

12 Posts (+1), 8 Cmts (+0)

This is a girl a my job and she sent me a message and turned it sexual let me know was it the right move or nah. If it was not maybe you guys could suggestion on how I would respond

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L

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i have no idea the back end of ya'lls relationship as co workers so idk why this was a good suggestion. I would've said thats gonna be hard with a laughing emoji. The last one doesn't make sense to me tbh.

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L

8 Posts (+15), 334 Cmts (+93)

Don’t eat where you poop bro. Literally millions of girls in the world.

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J

10 Posts (+1), 471 Cmts (+173)

I would just like her message, it will drive her nuts!

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J

10 Posts (+1), 471 Cmts (+173)

Yo can you delete that last message. She was being playfully non-compliant and you took it further, it does not make sense. It's going to come off uncalibrated and it's going to DLV yourself a bit. Do it before it's too late!

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Sam Miller Avatar

8 Posts (+10), 580 Cmts (+268)

This is a surefire way to get reported for harassment bro, I see what you were trying to do with the sexual message but it just did NOT come off. Not to mention the fact that after, she sent a pretty clear text and you doubled down, which was a mistake.

"Perhaps you can be my distraction" is a great line, but you need to understand the context behind the line, you can't just throw it out and hope it works. Here it makes no sense, your coworker is literally telling you to do your job, you're not having a conversation about what you're up to or if you're bored, etc. - you used it out of nowhere, and it makes it come off creepy.

As for right now just leave the conversation bro - I wouldn't follow up

Hope I wasn't too harsh, goodluck

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J

12 Posts (+1), 8 Cmts (+0)

Are you kidding me bruh now way

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Sam Miller Avatar

8 Posts (+10), 580 Cmts (+268)

Giving you my perspective as someone who doesn’t have context about this relationship. Is she a coworker you often talk/banter with? Is it someone you text very sporadically? I’m approaching this from more of the second one of if I were to text one of my coworkers whom I sometimes talk with but mostly about work, this is how it would come off. That’s all. The harassment was possibly exaggeration but in this day and age, you honestly never know. Feel free to give me some more context though.

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