Unmatched did I say too much too early? What could I have have done better

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The chosen one Avatar

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Here's the conversation
Me "Ah you're going to be trouble for me"
Her" The good trouble or the bad trouble?"
Me "The good trouble ;)
Her "Haha good ;)"
Her "So tell me what qualifies someone to be an expert cuddler?"
Me "Good question, I could walk you through the procedure
Her "Yeah please do"
Me "With you as the small spoon, I'd wrap my arm around your waist and get you close to me while your booty warms me up when I hold you tight. Play with your hair and pull it to the side to kiss your neck"

After this I was unmatched

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avilench . Avatar

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Yes. Definitely a bit too early. I'd have gone with something like "You just have to be the perfect temperature, know how to position the booty correctly as small spoon and smell good"

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26 Posts (+16), 191 Cmts (+106)

I'd also add the sexualization is little uncalibrated here. You went from basic flirting straight to full on details. I know I'm saying this with the benefit of hindsight, and this could have worked if the girl was super horny or super into you. My approach to sexualizing is giving bits of information at a time to keep the girl chasing for more. When I feel the pull is not there, I can pull back myself more easily. Just my 2c.

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The chosen one Avatar

536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)

Lol yeah I definitely jumped the gun a bit too early. Should of felt it out a bit more

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Clinton Woodall Avatar

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When she asked good or bad trouble, I would have said "the best kind :)" ....when she asked what qualifies someone to be an expert cuddlier, I wouldn't have said good question, its actually just a question you'll generally be asked if that's on your bio, instead of that, you could have qualified her a little or got her to chase a little by saying something that would give her an answer but not spoil the fun so early, something like "only one way to find out" "asking me to share my expertise in text is an injustice"

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The chosen one Avatar

536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)

Ah I see thanks. What about the cuddling paragraph? I've seen it work with other people

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Clinton Woodall Avatar

118 Posts (+42), 716 Cmts (+312)

I like your wording and skills there, but the context imo was off, right thing to say, wrong time to say it. She was investing low, and you were becoming the seller at that point.

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