Two best friends numbers at the same time- how do I proceed?
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Alright yall, so I bartend as a side hustle at this upscale bar downstairs from my apartment. I have started studying PWF content since January and it's insane how much it's stepped my game up. It's pretty common for me to get numbers on my shifts- however, last night I had two absolute babes that were vibing with me, had flirty eye contact on and off over 10-15 min while I was getting through a rush of making drinks. One brunette and one blonde- both sexy AF but the brunette was really throwing the "fuck the shit out of me" vibes so that's the main focus. When I caught up, they initiated by calling me over to tell me that I have a very "calming presence", this initiated some cocky/ flirty banter back and forth in between me making drinks over the next 30 min or so- a good connection was built. As they were leaving- I asked "What kind of trouble they're getting into next?" to which they did the normal "Ohhhhh we're not trouble" thing which was quickly settled with them admitting that they were "just the right amount of trouble". (Side note- the "trouble" line is easily top 3 tips from PWF for me lmao)
I did the first thing that came to mind which was to get both of their phone numbers- offering that I put the three of us in a group text titled "Troublemakers" so that we can plan a time to get together. Anyway, wanted to get the community input on best way to proceed?? The brunette is the one I'm really gunning for- do I just follow through on the group text and try to get them out for drinks some time this week? Any particular tips on contrasts in a group text conversation vs a one on one conversation? Any advice appreciated!
I think putting them in a group chat was a big mistake. Unless a 3some was previously discussed. You're just creating an extra challenge for yourself. My advice for situations like that is to pick the one you like more and game her. At this point though, not much you can do. Just message them in the group chat. Set up a date with the one you find more attractive or the one who's giving you most investment back
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Yeah I fucked up for sure 😂🤣 Heard about social closes after the fact... Chatted with them in a group for a few exchanges- ended up moving over to 1-1 text with the brunette... “Didn’t feel good about it” because her friend was interested too

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Just watched a video mentioning this as a “social close”^^^
Do I try to break off from the group text and hit the brunette up direct? 🧐