Tips for making girl happier in a one sided open relationship
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I'm in a one sided open relationship and my girl's having a hard time with it. She only reluctantly agreed because she wants to be with me, but she knew she's the jealous type. Lately I've been seeing other girls more and she's really having a hard time. I'd like her to see that none of these girls mean anything to me besides notches, but she has a hard time seeing it that way. She fears losing me to someone else. She's the most beautiful girl in the room almost anywhere we go, and a magnetic personality as well. Guys hit on her whenever I'm not with her. She makes a point to tell me that she has no interest in anyone else and loves me. Meanwhile she has mood swings and is unhappy.
So I wonder if you have any tips on how to conduct myself better for her. I did read that section in the product and I know it says partner selection is critical, so maybe she's just not a fit for this type of relationship. But I'd like to make it work. @avilench . I know you're in this type of relationship now, so wondering if you have any additional advice.

9 Posts (+5), 10 Cmts (+2)
I'll add some specific questions: if another girl you're trying to close says she's free only a certain day, and Nati later asks you if you can hang out that day, do you tell Nati you're busy, or cancel on the other girl? Do you tell Nati the situation? I cancel on the other girl because my gf would be very upset if she found out I prioritized someone else.
Do you ever sleep with another girl and then see Nati the same day? Does she know you've been with another girl? I've done it, and when my girl asks if I've been with someone I tell the truth. And she haaaates it.