Alex,
Context: I have 78 matches on tinder, barely 2-3 are actively responding. 80% of my matches don't respond to openers. 70% of matches of girls I could take it or leave it. 4 matches on Bumble. 3 are responding. ( too low) One could point to a low SMV, including women's perception of turban etc. Anyways, full transformation in play. Working on the latest/better/different pictures. TRT. Getting jacked. Tattoos. Learning better texting etc.
Here's a way to increase SMV and I would like your opinion on it.
I am also a certified erotic hypnotist. Here a demo of making a woman orgasm multiple times.
Erotic Hypnosis demo: https://youtu.be/chTiEfShvW4
I am also starting to teach workshops on this, leading to more demos ( better video quality, white women, more BDSM style language etc). TBH language used in this video is a bit tamer, it can easily get more direct, charged.
Question is, does it make sense to leverage this video on the profile? and is yes, how?
I do think it can make a difference, at least in how I'm perceived. Since we can't use direct URLs in profiles. I've set up a private
IG:sensual_hypnotist
Will post short 30-1 snippets of this demo. With the link to full demo and upcoming Sensual Connection ( erotic hypnosis workshop) in the bio. Essentially giving more orgasms to women, getting and helping men learn how to do it etc. May launch an erotic hypnosis certification program as well.
Then add to tinder/bumble bio one the these two

1. IG:sensual_hypnotist ( indirect)
2. Giving orgasms IG:sensual_hypnotist ( Direct)

My informal survey of showing it to women friends, all they report feeling aroused to varying degrees watching this. Some said they are jealous. Most mention, oh they want to send it to some women they know. My guess is at least 60% of matched will check it. Since its a new IG account, it won't have many followers yet but will have video of me giving orgasms and coaching. Gets in the sexual authority frame
Currently, tinder Job says - Erotic Hypnotist and Bumble: CEO and Founder ( my startup company)
I tested with "Sexologist" but didn't get much response to the change.
Questions: ( please watch the youtube video)

1. does it make sense to leverage this video/IG on the profile?
2. Is IG the best way to do it? Is it coming across as try-hard? Is there a better way?
3. Should the job be "Erotic Hypnotist" or "Sexologist"?
4. Should I drop bait in the bio something like ( Drop a comment if want to meet "Captain Nemo", this idea came from women who watched the video and said jokingly that they wanted to talk to Captain Nemo )
5. Should I reset tinder when I do these updates?
6. Should I experient the same profile with other dating apps, if yes, which ones? ( hinge gives me carp matches. On OK cupid, others?)
7. With this profile, I feel I should get more direct sexual in my texting. Yes or no?

TBH, this part of life is very frustrating and getting a bit obsessive to the levels that I can't really explain in words. Its got to be handled. I am encouraged with your training/content and learning from other getting results. Thank you for your thoughts and feedback. @avilench