Thoughts and how to proceed?
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2 Cmts
5y ago
Had a party at mine on friday with some university people and friends, met her there, spoke abit during the party.
This is the convo we had, i was thinking re-open Thursday or friday with - "Hey, how's it going with your friend? Let's say Monday at 7/7:30"
Ideas or suggestions welcome
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8 Posts (+10), 580 Cmts (+268)
I think you rushed the soft-close a little and the "wouldn't be against" comes off as not very confident because it almost sounds like you're waiting for her to say "I would"
I would have moved the conversation forward and either asked her a basic question to start some banter or used call-back humor to the conversation but you're in good shape right now, she seems interested and invested.
I would open with something like "Hola guapa" or a meme, then ask her how she's doing and from there hard close and ask her what her schedule is, you don't want to say a date, especially not as specific as Monday @7 without asking her first to make it smoother.
Hope this wasn't too harsh bro, goodluck!!
88 Posts (+30), 769 Cmts (+21)
Yea not at all (harsh bit) and i get what you mean with that, was talking to a mate about it the other day. I sent a re-opener not long ago before seeing this ("Hey, how's it going with your friend?").
I will see how it goes and also about the banter/small talk had that during party and didn't see point in having drawn out chat that could be done in person. You get what i mean?
For the hard close, what's your suggestion and go to text for figuring out schedule? Normally i go with - "What's your schedule looking like?"
Calm about her seeming interested and invested. what makes you think that though?