You butchered the wine close lol. When she says of course, all you had to say was "We should split a bottle sometime soon then". Your text was way too eager and try hard and you lost what little attraction she had for you. Right now this is going to be hard to recover, but I'd go with something like "Um, it's just a phone number. Also "daddy" is not spelled h-o-n-e-y ".

The convo as a whole started going downhill after your reply to her asking "what are you looking for". I would have taken that as a chance to tease her instead of going full on logical. Something like "Boy, I didn't think that simple question was going to hit a sore spot haha. I'll make sure to caress it on our date"

"Oh I'm going to enjoy spanking you should we have chemistry. Was that your plan"

Your message explaining the date could've been much shorter and I would've asked for her number first anyway, but I think you've done well so far

yeah man this was a poor number close. I think if you had said, "shoot me your number" there would be a least a 50% chance would have given it. At this point your in a bit of tuff spot.l Cause the buyer seller dynamic is way off. I would respond with "earn? I didn't know you were a Carnaval prize"