Here something I'd like some suggestions for...she's early 20's, generally snarky profile, except for a reference to doms and wanting something LTR. My response could be something along the lines of: "That's part of my question. You're looking for dominant parter and anxiety/ stress relief, which I can do. If we meet up and vibe, then anything's on the table"
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I think your last text was uncalibrated. She straight up told you that the reason she wasn't replying was that she isn't on the app a lot. That was the time to move things over to text. There's not always a deeper underlying objection. Sometimes, things are exactly what they seem. And I think that this was such a case. In terms of moving forward, I need some logistical context. How far is your town from hers?
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Thanks Alex. I can see your point. She's 90 miles away.
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Damn dude. That's about an hr and a half drive which for a lotta chicks is gonna be too far. I might say something like "I'm sure our love will find a way. You even drive down to Bend?"