Texting a DTF girl

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Hey,
I can't push for number anymore. Lockdown is here till 17th may. Who knows how long covid would last.
just saw that she has attached her Instagram. She is real. The only thing that can ruin this is neediness which is showing a little bit in the end. What to do from here?

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avilench . Avatar

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Secondly, don't justify yourself. When she says "Haha. You're on here daily". "Just on the weekends" isn't good because you're basically justifying yourself. You don't owe this chick an explanation and giving her one is not a high value move. Also saying I won't text you that much is no bueno either. You're kinda in a tricky spot now. I would follow up after a few days with something like "Or are you into that sorta thing"

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Ok, thanks for the feedback Alex. But after 2 days of waiting, she unmatched. Feels bad XD

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avilench . Avatar

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Yikes man. Few things. First off, don't agree to a girl who says "After corona". You're gonna wanna dig a lot deeper and get to the underlying concern or objection. This covid nonsense will probably go on for years. So, waiting until corona ends is in practice the same as never meeting. I would have replied with something like "Are you worried I have the rona or something". Then when she says "Haha, well you never know". You can say you've been vaccinated or tested recently so she has nothing to worry about with you

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