I didn’t close this girl. I just wasn’t feeling it once we met. I could tell the instant I went outside to greet her it just wasn’t gonna go down. Got a friend vibe from her to be honest.

But, some interesting takeaways here. First, she wasn’t answering any of my texts on Tinder after she soft closed me. She didn’t respond until I went sexually aggressive. Which baffles me because she doesn’t seem DTF by her profile. In person she said that everything is just to boring to her. Sort of explained how if you got too extreme off the jump, then the guy gets labeled as uncalibrated or creepy because all girls want to “get to know you first” At least most, I’d like to think.

Second, she waited an entire hour before we were suppose to meet to ask if I had Instagram. She then asked if I could send her a video, to which I just FaceTimed her & then she didn’t answered but called me back. She then asked if I could just send a pic. I then told her I was actually calling her to make sure it’s her that’s coming over & not someone else. She then starts saying how she’s never FaceTimed before & that I could FT her in 30 minutes.

Call her 30 minutes & she starts backpedaling about FaceTiming. She doesn’t want to for some reason. Then drops it & says it’s giving her too much anxiety to FaceTime & that she can just come over. So magically, I was able to avoid sending a pic or a vid considered she came over without proof of each, lol.

Also, moving forward if I don’t feel like a girl is into me or the date is going anywhere, within 15-20 min just address it & see if they start to chase & explain or just agree to end it there. I sometimes question myself whether it’s a lack of game or something when sometimes the girl’s interest just isn’t there, I don’t see myself banging, or they’re not even aware they’re acting dumb because no guy has addressed it to them before.