Hey,
Can't tell if this girl is a time waster or not. My gut instinct is she needs more investment before meeting up since she's new to tinder.
Was planning on letting it go but part of me wants to keep going to see if I can turn it around.
Whats the next move?
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Text game was good in my opinion until you started qualifying yourself when you said “bet there’s some awesome guys on tinder“. Then you went straight to the close. I wouldve pryed harder and said “ What’s wrong with finding your Prince Charming on tinder?” Then she will say there’s a stigma about it where she thinks it’s just a fuck app. From there you just have to be normal and show to her you’re not some fuckboy that is looking for a one night stand, which ideally will come naturally for you.
My two cents
5 Posts (+0), 8 Cmts (+1)
From here “ if you’re too nervous I’d understand” would be your best next move
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Overall your text game here is pretty bad. First of all you got into a lengthy logical discussion wither about the merits of tinder. That's never good. It's much better to just tease her and make jokes rather than get logical. Second of all your close here is really wishy washy "half to ask. do you like wine?" Don't be embarassed to go for the close. You can just say "do you like wine". Than, when you say let's split a bottle of blah blah, there's no need to say "if you're up for it". Just assume that she wants to meet you. You will sound a lot more confident that way
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Great advice. I'll be sure to straight up on the close next time.
As weird as it sounds I'm not too great at making jokes and teasing just yet. I'm sure it'll come with time but any way to get better in this area in particular?
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Practice practice man. The more you do it, the easier it will get