I have been in the community from the start. I was always very needy sweet, trying to win girls over. At first, when PWF Members would suggest me to go sexual, I would hesitate A LOT. But I read all their Lay Reports and thought maybe they know their stuff and started sending everything they gave me.

Soon, I had girls coming over constantly and I couldn't close because I didn't know how to. I would post Field Reports explaining everything. seeing a constant pattern Alex jumped on a live call with me and explained that I should be congruent and gave me pointers on how to lead and maintain eye contact, build tension.

Since then, it was always a done deal, the community helped me get my SMV higher, the texts were always sexual directed towards hookup and I would have girls come over for hookup and since i would have insane value in her eyes and sexual frame, I just went with the pointers and started closing.

A had a few mind blowing experiences, main being you can always sexualize a conversation. If you do it properly, without rushing or being incongruent, the girl will always love it and be her sexual genuine self.
I also realized the only window these girls have in your life is the window you show them. So you have the power to frame your life as you want to. If you're working as a bartender, don't say you're a bartender, say you're insanely passionate about xyz and you love it, you're pursuing that, but to pay the bills you took up bartending to party hard, spend time with my homies and have fun while I am pursuing my passion of xyz. This reframe will change her perception instead of using "I am a bartender".

I also learned how to be more congruent, witty and keep the conversation more engaging and fun. A lot of girls tell me, they had the most fun talking with me because I stood out with my direct, forward approach and the funny sexual banter.

The community is extremely helpful, over 100s of love reports, mostly covering all aspects of situations, objection handling and maintaining your frame.

I will have to dig to find the old screenshots since I have changed couple of phones since 2018, but what really helped was having the community always helping you out.
Eventually your mind starts picking things up and you understand the psychology behind messages and why it works and why the girls get horny and come over to fuck.

Renovating my Tinder and Bumble profiles helped quite a bit. I saw immediate improvements in my matches. Instead of just matching, girls were intrigued in talking and I had good success with hooking up. None of them were keepers, so I kept up with with spending an hour or so every evening treating dating apps like my job. Prospecting, communicating with matches, setting up dates, closing deals, etc... it kind of got monotonous, like with work. I treated it as a job and a I got better the more matches I got. It was like shooting fish in a barrel.
Yet, I wasn't finding anyone that was the kind of girl that I'd be proud of introducing to my parents. Not because of looks, mostly because I knew that there wasn't a real connection and that I knew I'd get tired of them. I also had a profile on Hinge. I didn't update my profile on there like my Bumble and Tinder profile (with a list of risque pro/cons). However, my openers when "liked" were crisp and clean. This lead to a few more serious dates, girls that I could see myself dating longer term. Right before the state put a stay at home order, I met this girl who is very quirky, has a passion for fitness, is well educated, has a good profession, very inexperienced sexually (not that many partners), and seemed to come from a very stable family. I didn't want to rush things with her, so we chatted over FaceTime a few nights after work, asked her out (we met at the grocery store because that was the only place open), hit it off very well. We continued to FaceTime in the evenings, and I asked her to come over so I could make her dinner and share a bottle of wine. When she came over, I had dinner halfway done, we uncorked the bottle of wine and she practically jumped on top of me in the kitchen. I held up some self-control and we had a long evening of wine, good food, and great conversation. She asked me over to her place a couple of nights after, and we've been spending the night at each other's place a couple of times a week for the past month. Neither of us are seeing anyone else and we're already talking about meeting each other's parents.
Now, I know this isn't the LR that this community typically gets an update on (actually, I've never read a relationship starting on here ever before), but I'm getting up there in years and would like to start a family someday. I've always been really picky because I've never wanted to have kids with someone that I couldn't see myself with forever. I would like my kids to have a better childhood than I did. Anyway, who knows where this will end up. If it doesn't work out, I'll "go back to work". I have a good feeling about this one, I haven't had it in several years.

I've been pretty quiet in the community lately due to cutting off social media (and I'm much happier/healthier from this), but this was one I had to respond to.

I spent years of my life using materials from some other mainstream PUA companies. I live in a mid-tier city, where online game is the best option for consistent girls and leads. My first few years messing around on Tinder / online dating, I got maybe 5-7 lays. I'm truly ashamed now to say, in the months leading up to me buying this product, I went on 20 some public dates, and during that time I "kiss closed" 10 girls in a row but didn't bang a single one of them. I was frustrated yet had no idea what I was doing wrong.

Then, I met a local guy who turned me onto PWF. I read the product inside and out at least 3 or 4 times. And, I used the Mastermind not just as a place to get fed lines, but to observe the feedback others were getting and apply it to myself.

Over the ~12 months after buying the PWF product and becoming active in the Mastermind, I closed on average two new girls a month. Virtually every single one was a straight-to-house fuck date. I'm 31, the average girl was probably 22 or 23 years old and cute.

Through the Mastermind and some 1:1 coaching from Indian PE himself, I started getting fairly consistent results. I even wrote a bonus chapter in the Online Dating Blueprint product.

Overall, what I've come to love about PWF is that it's no BS, no fluff, and a relatively straightforward model to follow. I'm very selective about who in the community I'm willing to invest my time and money in following, and Alex is one of the very few who's real and truly legit.

Note that I'm just an average guy. I don't take care of my body nearly as well as I should, and I'm just shy of 5'6". I'm no Chad or anything even remotely close.

I'm very new to the community but I can say it's already been helping me a lot to be immersed in the mastermind and getting direct help so frequently. I'd feel a lot more lost without it and my brain is learning faster through more data to pattern match on (while practicing making up my own texts).

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Great post man. I’m looking forward to hearing the stories as well

I would like to finally submit my testimonial.

I've always been almost handicapped with online dating in general, I've maybe been able to go out with 3 people over my 5 years of trying, and they were all more or less terrible experiences. I wasn't attracting quality women and on top of that when I did my socially uncalibrated and needy texting was putting them off if I did somehow manage to match with ''a good one''. I'm not bad looking IRL, but my dating pool was incredibly small and I was only limiting myself severely.

People rely increasingly on online dating. And during the pandemic, I had no opportunity to meet women IRL. I felt like I lost control of my life and was debating just getting back with my very mentally ill ex girlfriend and marrying her cause I felt like ''I'd never get a better one''.

I was signed up for Bumble, POF, and Match and getting NO high quality matches. I also ranted about some fast food chicken sandwich to a girl after which she stopped replying (seriously) and realized something had to change and I needed help.

I started watching Alex's videos and everything started to make sense, I spent a few weeks going over all of his content. You don't have to agree with everything he says or follow some magic formula, I found Alex took a theoretical approach to things and technical as well, which really helped me adapt his work to my own goals and objectives. I quickly realized my profiles were hot garbage and my texting as well. Slowly I started taking new pictures with help of my friends and building enough photos to make a good profile.

The quality and numbers of my matches shot up instantly. I started with hinge and got about maybe 4 likes a week, but many of these were interesting, attractive girls. I started feeling like I've regained control of my life. I realized that my texting was still awful though and I was showing needyness on my texts.

I signed up for the product and read through it all. I joined the facebook group and the group chat and would post of my texts. texts that I thought were perfectly fine were deconstructed by members as being failures (showing needyness, too much availabilty, poor closing) it was a brutal but necessary experience. One gripe I have is I wish the group (particulalry the chat) had more of a moderator presence. It makes us look bad if weirdos get to say anything they want.

Anyway, eventually I got things to a better point, where I could match and meet up with women once at least once a month. Attractive women. Note that I'm not super keen on just hooking up, but I could have hooked up a lot if I wanted to, and a lot especialyl if I lowered my standards. I dated a girl for a month or two, she gave amazing blowjobs and I would tie her up and force orgasms out of her. Just being immersed in the group helped me accept that being a red blooded sexual male was OK and nothing to be ashamed about, which a lot of men have problems with these days.

Fast forward to today, I've made even more improvements to my profile. I've gotten over 150 likes in my first month of opening my Tinder profile after meticulously making tweeks from everything I've learned over the past 4 months. I've totally regained control of my dating life and my happiness in general. I've been performing better at work because of my new optimism and got a promotion (sounds bullshit, but its real). I'm texting 4 beautiful women now. My game still needs work, but I have a foundation to work off of. Yesterday I went for a walk with a girl who was incredibly beautiful and we're hanging out again. Recently very severe lockdown measures have really killed my opportunities, but I have no doubt things will keep improving and once lockdown is over, things should be great. I find myself looking forward to the years ahead, especially as I'm doing long term things to increase my SMV even further.

Anyway alex, thank you. You honestly helped me regain control of my life.

Welcome to the group. Glad you made the decision to join. I was in your shoes 3 months ago. Had never really done any dating apps and now thanks to the product and help of Alex and Nitin been having a lot of succes. Looking forward to reading about your success.

Cool post. Can’t wait to see your stories

Before PWF my text game was similar to most PUA guys. Atrocious.

3 months later my date conversion rate went through the roof and I still have so much to learn!

Applying this stuff made me actually understand what I am doing at an overview level and helped me have way more effective text convos that actually lead to dates.

It even helps me talking with clients in a business setting as I communicate in a more assertive, clear and clever manner, using words the other person uses to my advantage, open loops, and soft closes.

Super happy I joined, I am very grateful!