Im posting a message that I sent to Alex recently as how I’m struggling to pass LMR on my dates per his request. If anyone has had the same problems that I’m face, feel free to give your opinion and how you overcame it too.

Hey Man,

This is Mustafa here. I'm reaching out to you because I need advice from you personally. This is not about the text games but about the actual dates. So far, I have been on 7 dates, 4 public, 1 to her house, and 2 to my house. I've only gotten one lay so far, which was the first one that came straight to my house, she was an ebony girl who was super DTF and was perceptive really quick to my sexual vibe, and we fucked. On the first 2 public dates, I was a pussy and didn't sexualize enough, the last 2 ones I sexualized heavy including touching, flirting and building comfort and we were vibing, but there were very resistant to even a kiss. pushed and pulled but still failed. The last two dates, one to her place and that one was a good one, we made out heavy, I sucked on her boobs and gave her a massage but at the end of the night, she said she was "apprehensive and not feeling it. the last date was to my place, she just left as I'm writing this. we vibed, flirted, I sexualized, got in close proximity, and were able to physically escalate but resisted a kiss. pushed and pulled and still resisted and said she is not feeling the compatibility. I guess my problem now is that I cant handle LMRs, especially not knowing how to respond to her concerns and persuade her otherwise. the most common concerns that I'm getting are "I'm not feeling it" "I don't want to have sex on a first date" "No, I don't want to do it". some say that before I even go for a kiss, some say literally as im sucking on her tits. I really need you guidance o this one, and I hope you respond