Known her for a month and a half. Smashed the first date in her SUV. she withheld sex on date 2. Date 3, sex again. Got to know each other well. First week we couldn't meet was legit family stuff on my end that she could verify. Then the passive aggression starts. "We should do something without drinking" I said cool and scheduled an evening walk and nope she had to work too late that time. Ok, so pub trivia it was...with drinks obviously. Fast forward to this bullshit. And she blew me off for brewing (alcohol!) with friends. Ok whatever. Already fucked you twice sweetheart go pound sand.
Oh btw when she was drink on date 2 she referred to herself, vis a vis her older sister, as a "loser". Yes you are.
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44 Posts (+47), 45 Cmts (+26)
She was probably hoping to turn this into a serious thing. If you're not looking for something serious I'd say just break it off in a respectfull manner.
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
We were having fun, and when we smashed it was good and š„. And when she wouldn't smash date 2, at first I was annoyed (silently) but checked myself - that's always her right and not anything "wrong" on her part. It was the first Tuesday I couldn't meet that the passive aggression ramped up. And reading this, she basically set me up to flake on me while trying to shame me, to force me into her disingenuous frame (she gets way more inebriated than me and literally brews alcohol for fun in spare time & fucked me after drinking on the first date). She lives with her two elementary school aged kids and parents in her parents small suburban house, with no plans to move out. She has no value as a long term partner whatsoever. What a delusional creature.
I'll always remember her for this quote
"10 years ago, my first childhood friend got divorced and it was a surprise. Then I got divorced 6 years ago. At this point, all (yes, all!) my childhood girlfriends are now divorced or currently going through a divorce ".
1 Post (+6), 8 Cmts (+20)
disgraceful! you should apologise to her immediately and invite her out for an expensive dinner that you pay for, whenever SHE has time and feels like going