Hey, basically I banged this hot chick that I met through a guy that I thought was dating her, but turns out she wasn't (she told me that when she came over). i saw her out at night on friday, said hi, chatted, then invited her to after party, she asked me to send addy, i sent, then in between her texting me about her getting in the uber and her telling me she wasn't down i saw her out and bantered with her again. she was not super receptive to teh flirting, nor did she recognize it as flirting (according to her), but she ended up inviting herself over.

in between the we cant go back to her place she called me after like 15 mins of me not responding and then we talked about some logistics that bascially she could potentially be in my area that day so she'll lmk, and she asked when i had to be up / when i finished work and whether i wanted to drink wine again (which is what we did when she came over).

when she came over she bascially just told me that she never had any romance with the mutual, we hooked up, and my dick had some trouble getting hard cuz it was late and i was drunk but evnetually it got hard and i banged her for like an hour and she seemed to be into it. then we hung out the morning after and i made her breakfast before i had to leave. she didn't wanna leave the house to get brunch together nor did she want to commit to a date in the moment. but since she called me she's prob down

normally this is pretty easy. id just say "still good for dinner tonight?" at like noon, but i dont wanna be too needy since she's been kinda standoffish before until she decides last minute that she wants to do it without someone convincing her. any thoughts or am i overthinking?