This is the full Context. She was my client for bout half a year. Recently been seeing her for bout a month, slept with her good amount. Our dates were never official she was always paying, I officially asked her out before her grandfather funeral. But before the funeral she took me to her business & went shopping for her funeral outfit near her place by Crystal Cove Newport. She wanted me to meet her dad, but I said “now is not the right time”. Later that night she text me “ur so kind to me & did u have fun”. I replied via voice memo “shut up ofc I did, that’s why I wish u the best”. She replied “u sound like a poet”. I was trying allude her that I’m giving space before she need it, but she kept on texting me even after funeral. Eventually it lead to “im sad at everything” & “why do u men need sex”. I push her away even further by showing her too much empathy & setting a boundary. But despite that she kept on texting me, thing went downhill from there. In that time frame she seen that I was seeing other girls & kept replying to my stories, I would respond with dry responses. I muted her stories so I wouldn’t be intrusive, I want her to handle her business. Even now she still text me or snaps me from day to day, sometimes it’s flirting and sometimes it’s validation seeking so I won’t reply. I want to see her again but I want her to handle her situation first. I push people away I care for so they can handle their shit. Lmk if I’m wrong for doing this? Max Fox

She was my client for bout half a year. Recently been seeing her for bout a month, slept with her good amount. Our dates were never official she was always paying, I officially asked her out before her grandfather funeral. But before the funeral she took me to her business & went shopping for her funeral outfit near her place by Crystal Cove Newport. She wanted me to meet her dad, but I said “now is not the right time”. Later that night she text me “ur so kind to me & did u have fun”. I replied via voice memo “shut up ofc I did, that’s why I wish u the best”. She replied “u sound like a poet”. I was trying allude her that I’m giving space before she need it, but she kept on texting me even after funeral. Eventually it lead to “im sad at everything” & “why do u men need sex”. I push her away even further by showing her too much empathy & setting a boundary. But despite that she kept on texting me, thing went downhill from there. In that time frame she seen that I was seeing other girls & kept replying to my stories, I would respond with dry responses. I muted her stories so I wouldn’t be intrusive, I want her to handle her business. Even now she still text me or snaps me from day to day, sometimes it’s flirting and sometimes it’s validation seeking so I won’t reply. I want to see her again but I want her to handle her situation first. I push people away I care for so they can handle their shit. Lmk if I’m wrong for doing this? avilench .

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Ofc! I felt she was overthinking & being to hard herself. Her grandfather just pass, mixed emotions can be felt. I was Alluding her towards space even before this incident. Just never been place in situation this difficult. I give space before a person I care for needs it, it’s my way of showing I care for them so they can handle their business. She still text or snaps me from day to day. I’ll see her eventually when it’s convenient on both ends. And I don’t put labels on relationship buddy! Not unless a girl asked what we are. What I wanna know is Wat u Sayin in this situation?Dude Dudesen