Sorry for the multiple posts, but this just makes no sense and it’s just typical that girls play games like this. I rebounded from her shit test well and then she tells me “guess you’ll have to find out”. So I say shoot me your number because that seems like she wants to hang. She then sends this: how do I respond? Thank you everyone for help.
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too early for the close
58 Posts (+11), 40 Cmts (+1)
I thought that but I felt that was an investment type of response that pushed for a meet up, no?
11 Posts (+22), 395 Cmts (+179)
“Guess you’ll have to find out” if anything means they’re still on the fence. Yet you decided to randomly do a number close.
Something like “I do my best discovery over wine ;)” would have been better.
At this point just play along:
“What would you like to know 😏”
397 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Dude, don't blame the girl. This was very much a premature close. I talk about this all the time. You didn't soft close, you didn't figure out her schedule, you didn't make any kind of plans, you just randomly went for the number.
58 Posts (+11), 40 Cmts (+1)
Yeah you’re right, I rushed it. I’m new to the text game and I’ve been learning as I go definitely assumed too much and fucked up here. Is dennis’s suggestion the best next option?
397 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Yes, go with what Dennis said