Basically, I've been flirting with the gym receptionist for like 2 weeks. Got some pretty good signals and today I asked her out.
She gave me the " I have a boyfriend but we can still hangout as friends"
I look her in the eyes and said, "Do you really think if we go out we would be just friends?"
She said "We need to start as friends and then we'll see hahaha that's how it's supposed to go ahahah"
I don't even know if she really has a boyfriend or not, to be honest.
What should my next move be?
PS: All our interactions were in person.
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Did you get her number? If you did text her and proceed as usual. If you didn't, you'll know by her behaviour what the next steps are. She'll either shut down the flirting or keep giving signals.
If you have her socials or you're friends with anyone that knows her, you can easily find out if she has a bf. My impression is she left the door open for you.
It can be tricky with some girls. I had something similar happen at my gym - we flirted, I tossed out a date idea, got her number, and then she dropped the boyfriend bomb on me: "i feel bad for leading you on but i'm in a relationship..." I learned later that it was true fwiw. sometimes thems the breaks