Really struggling on dating apps, (ie: Tinder, Bumble, CMB, Hinge, etc), SOS..please help....
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Hey Hey, so I just purchased the PWF and glad to be on board. Just a little background on me, I'm 37, a resident surgeon, love comedy clubs, salsa dancing, WWE (yes I know its fake, but I love the jokes & gimmicks), Knicks Giants (so please excuse the paperbag) as they both suck right now, but still love them. Anyway, I'm a pretty easy going guy, love bantering, cooking, learned a lot of & continuing to learn great secrets from my mom & food network, & struggling to attract women, especially on the apps. One of my biggest issues initially was getting matches, which improved (using many different combos of these pics), however, I'm not receiving matches from women I'm truly attracted to (ie: 20s, & to a minor extent, the college crowd). The 30s & 40s are decent at times, but even that leaves a lot more to be desired for. I've used so many different professional photographers & results haven't changed that much. I see guys with way worse than this doing better than me & I'm just flabbergasted as to what's going on, what the problem is, & more importantly, what I can do to turn this situation around. I'm ready, willing, & able for that. We're all in this together so if there's anything I can do to be of help to you guys, feel free to ask. Wishing us the best in the upcoming New Year.
Cheers,
Omar
PS., Anything that will help me to stop getting overlooked by women on these apps would be greatly appreciated & I’ll be forever indebted to you guys.
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Thanks Jacob, at a surgical conference in Tx & in bed recovering from a cold. Thanks so much for the constructive feedback, I really need it to turn this around. What can I do about these pics. I can't find any good photographers by me. I'm going to read this and take it piece-by-piece and respond to the rest a little later. Thanks so much again man.
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Hey Jacob, all rested & recovered from the cold, hope you & Alex & everyone enjoyed your Thanksgiving week.
Let's take this from the bottom and work our way to the top. So starting with the pics, that's the feedback I've been hearing and what's the reason they're not the best, so I don't keep repeating this mistake. I invested hundreds into these pics and I can barely afford another one, unless I need 1 or 2 really good pro ones.
Ok is fine, but I'm aiming for superb and I really want to do best I can possible to stand out, any tips would be great. Many thanks in advance man.
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Do you have more pics if you doing surgeries or anything like that
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Hey man, sorry for the delayed response, was in bed recovering from a rough cold I caught from a resident. Those are the only 2 pics I have, but I can take some of the surgery types. Any recommendations there on really getting some good ones?
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Ideally where you look in charge. Like the boss. Also you should just look good. The key is to take a lot and then just look for the “magic one”
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Welcome to pwf man. Your pics are below average unfortunately. The only decent one is where you are chilling on the bench. The bed one looks too flamboyant and a lot if the other ones you don’t look good in. Do you have more pics of you in scrub. Ideally performing some kind of procedure or giving a lecture?
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Funny, I get hit up by the 18-20s crowd, but its usually for sugar daddy, & I'm not about that life. :)
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Its also frustrating, as I've spent tons & this is the end result, there's a few cell pics mixed in there by the way.
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I understand man. Lot of guys have been in that place. I’ll do my best to get you up & going
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Also this is open to Anybody, feel free to add me & pic it apart, at this stage in my life, I'm ready for the brutal honesty & realness as its the only way I can change. If there's any good affordable photographers that can give me what you suggest, I'm all ears. Thanks again man.
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Yeah, thanks for the honesty man. For years, people, friends, co-workers, strangers, & even other dating coaches stated its great, fine, some said too "try-hard," yet I don't know a good photographer in NYC that can help me get the right photos. Please advise.
Feel free to friend me on facebook: (https://www.facebook.com/omar.gabriel.927)
Nobody around me seems to know what the heck they're doing.
here's all the pics I have, & I'll send more in a bit. Many thanks in advance
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I’m banned from Facebook (vice controversy). Do you have Instagram?
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Thanks Alex with the pic advice. I totally got this
Ok, so I found some photographers that seem to know what they're talking about. Please tell me if you guys think they fit the bill for my needs:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ERIKK8f15wk
http://www.jessicawhitaker.co/photography-education/
https://www.heysaturday.co/