So this is a chick that I had a long interaction with then I close sub optimal and she disappeared. I reopened her what I said on the voice note was just got back from Saint Augustine had a good time have a great day. She responded with have a great day the whole text stream isn’t here because I had deleted it. Since I already had an interaction with her, How best to escalate?
By the way this is a chick. that I had previously moved to Instagram I’ll try to keep them on the app or straight the phone
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Yeah bro, you keep doing suboptimal stuff lol. It doesn't sound like she really disappeared on you either. Because the last text before the voicenote was from her. You gotta keep in mind a girl you haven't met doesn't give a rats ass that you came back from Saint Augustine. That information is irrelevant to her. Also, you gotta stop going from the app to Instagram. It's extremely suboptimal. Always go for the number, always.
You're gonna have to get the conversation going again before you go for the close a second time. What you say next should probably be contextual to what you discussed earlier. Probably a reference to some inside joke or something like that.
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sounds good I’m just not quite sure how to go for the number. But I’ll try to keep it a straightforward as possible that was an older lead I’m gonna stop trying to move them to Instagram