Yo dudes. So I've been seeing this girl from tinder for a little over a month now. She has a cool personality and is a good hang so I want to keep seeing her. The problem is that she is really a busy body, and packs her schedule so full with work/family/activities that I am having a hard time seeing her. We went out on valentines and it was a great time, but now I've been trying to schedule a date / hang out for over two weeks now and still just getting excuses. We've banged like 4x and I don't get ho3 vibes from her at all, no tattoos and conservative leaning (if that means anything). We sorta agreed we wouldn't see anyone else so kind of exclusive.
I'm wondering how long I should hold out before I tell her 'See ya later' and try and go date other girls again. I'm supposed to see her tomorrow but if she cancels again for some reason I'm really contemplating just leaving it open ended, and bouncing.
What do you guys think?
Also I had another girl randomly hit me up asking about a FWB situation and then I scheduled and cancelled a date with her because current girl said she really did miss me and want to see me. Behavior over words in this situation?? Have never dealt with this dilemma before...
Also P.S. that email newsletter that Alex sent about long term dating the other day was fire, so thanks for that !

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the mistake you made is agreeing to be exclusive with this girl in the first place. she could be an amazing girl but sometimes lifestyles dont line up. that seems to be the case here. she might be great gf material 10 years from now, but sounds like that isnt the case now. I would just calmly communicate what you said here next time you see her in person and see what she says.
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ah thanks yeah that's good advice. Although shes 28 and I'm 30 so theres not gonna be any '10 years from now' lmao