Question for Alex: How did you discover that knowing multiple languages is high value?
How did you discover that knowing multiple languages is high value? And that women find it attractive.
I agree, I am starting to see that there's a bunch of advantages to knowing multiple languages. For instance, some girl might be a specific culture and you knowing the language will get her even more interested in you.
At the same time, when I was in college, I was already fluent in English, Spanish, and learning Portuguese I could have continued learning more languages, but I stopped. Since I asked around my college buddies and people around me if it was "cool" to know multiple languages some people thought it was but others didn't. Then I asked on various Internet forums and a lot of people told me, "English is the only language you need mate." Then I asked my former PUA coach(I was taking lessons at the time) and he said, "Forget about that bro, focus on vibe, vibe will get you results."
At the time, I concluded that it was probably a "niche interest." I guess I was lead astray, by the people surrounding me. I wonder how was your experience and how did you arrive at your conclusions.
Dude, if you enjoy learning languages, keep learning them. I think a lot of people view it as "work" and will tell you it's unnecessary, but it's a legitimate hobby.
Having multiple languages makes you more versatile in social situations. If you happen to meet a girl who has weak English and you know her language, it can make her more comfortable. But really, learn them because you love them.
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It was a series of experiences. The big one was I was hanging out at this girls house when I was 21 and she got super intrigued when she found out I could speak russian and kept asking me to say something to her. We ended up smashing later that night and afterwords she told me she got turned on when i was speaking to her in russian
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I see man thanks. One pattern I am seeing with your discoveries is the you test them out on your own and then if it works you continue doing it. Is the opposite approach in the PUA community. Where the coaches and students read everything online and then try apply it. Hence even when it doesn't work people have this mindset, but it has to work since X coach says it works.