Profile Review Again (will pay for coaching)

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I've posted this same question before. Not sure if it's because of lockdown or what's been going on, but 95% of girls that I interact with drop off at some point. Even the ones that agree to a date blow me off during scheduling, saying they are too busy or they just go cold.

I think LA in general is a tougher market but I would love to hear from other guys that live here how they are doing?

Anyway, I attached my profile pictures again to see if hats what it is. I also included examples of interactions that just died.

Also, anytime I ask a girl to do a date at my place and she’s not down, she literally stops responding after I suggest something else (included examples of that).

Any help would be useful and I’m happy to pay someone with results for their time. I attached examples of interactions that died.

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avilench . Avatar

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no need to pay man, your already in the mastermind :)

overall, your profile pictures are right about average. There not bad but not special either. LA is a very competitve city so while average might get you 3-4 lays a month in other cities. In LA average can be difficult. The point that im trying to make is it will be helpful to up the quality of your profile photos. Ideally with some cool activity pics where you are dress well (no loos fitting shirt or shorts). Out of your current picutres i would say #3 should go because its worse than the others

another big piece of advice is that the more you sexually screen the less flaking you'll have. It may sound a bit counter initutive. But its true. Your profile right now has 0 screening of any kind. Ideally i would like to see you get a good shirtless pic in there to screen with the photos. And a more balsy bio. Throw the word "Dominant" in there. Also do you speak any other languages?

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This one is better I think

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55 Posts (+9), 169 Cmts (+7)

Thanks a lot for the feedback and insight. My hair has thinned out quite a bit, but what do you think of the pic I attached? I'm getting a transplant next month so pics might be tricky for a while.

I do speak Hebrew, how's this for a bio:

6’1”. Entrepreneur by day, fun seeker the rest of the time. Mindset and gratitude are everything.

I've backpacked SE Asia and have a few crazy tales up my sleeve. And I also speak Hebrew and broken Spanish.

Just a dominant gent that's looking for an adventurous, athletic and funny girl to hang out with during.

So... spicy margs or Moscow mules?

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

yeah man looks solid. I would use that one. Let me know how the transplant goes! Your bio looks pretty good. Add Dominant in to it as well

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Sam Miller Avatar

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Los Angeles is definitely a tougher area to meet girls in and the competition is steeper. Often, when you go to less renowned cities outside of LA the dating scene shifts and it doesn't become "easier" per se but the competition is lessened and you are able to get better results with similar-looking girls (in my experience anyway). Your pictures are decent. The first one and the fifth are your best, rock climbing is cool and it seems like it's something your passionate about so don't leave that picture for last. Anyway, as for 2, ones with girls tend to not do great on tinder so I would reconsider, and 3 and 4, all look very posed. Your expression on those two looks a little strange as well and you may benefit from taking more candid photos or you doing different activities, maybe with a pet? (If that's applicable).

Moreover, your text game is pretty good, you're using takeaways correctly and investing the right amount. It's hard for me to break specific things down and give you more individual advice when you post all of the interactions at once. The most general points I can make as of right now are probably:

1 - Before you say things like "When are you free for a walk" try to soft close and get her to agree to the general idea of you hanging out ie: "We should go on a walk sometime" then you hard close by asking her when she's free and move it to the number etc.

2 - When you rengage its' best to use a takeaway instead of "Happy NYE" because when you use a takeaway you're sort of calling out her behavior instead of rewarding her for not responding so to speak

3 - Get the number and then lock down a specific time/date, you're much more likely to get a date like that because not only is the number more personal but it differentiates you from everyone else. There might be 300+ she's talking to on tinder but maybe only 10-20 she's texting.

Finally, your bio is ok. How you can improve is by sexualizing and being bolder. You want to be different than all the other boring dudes out there, your bio right now is very standard and honestly quite boring. Spice things up a little. Goodluck brother.

Hope this helps and sorry if I was harsh.

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Not harsh at all, I really appreciate the time you took to write that up man, thanks. I'm working on getting some new pics before I get my hair transplant next month so I will see if I can get 2 or 3 before then.

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