I’ve been talking to this girl for 3 weeks now, still yet to meet up. First week she was busy, second week I had stuff going on, and this week we’ve been going back and forth on where to go, since my first two recommendations didn’t quite work due to her already being to location 1, and the weather being too cold for location number 2. Another problem is that we only text a couple times a day, so I’ve found ourselves often not agreeing to a date 100% by the weekend due to her slow response times, otherwise our conversations are decent. For example this week I’ve been trying to figure out an alternative location/activity for Sunday, since she told me Sundays she’s off. But it’s now Saturday and my last message was on Thursday where I told her to just get in my car and we’ll go somewhere jokingly. I’m thinking if I don’t hear from her today and she ends up replying on Monday or Tuesday, I should call her out.

The last time I called a girl out I sounded butt hurt, this time I need to make it slightly playful but also serious, I was thinking of giving a take away. Something along the lines of telling her if she’s not feeling it just tell me and I’ll stop, otherwise she will have to make it up to me for being unresponsive/cooperative. Either way I’m good since I got another date ready on Sunday, but this girls fine as hell, I just don’t really bother being persistent if there’s a bit of a resistance to meeting up. At the same time I’m kinda to blame since my date ideas didn’t work out, I told her when my usual food spot is open again I’d take her, which she was intrigued by, but again that place ain’t possible this week.