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Went on first date with this girl. It was going extremely well. Joking, dancing, lots of fun. Had an intense make out in the venue before we started to walk back to hers.

She asked me what I was looking for, saying she didn’t want to be messed around. I told her something casual at first - not a ONS. She said we won’t be having sex on the first date.

We’d had the same amount to drink but she’s a lot smaller so was pretty drunk - I was near sober.

We got to hers and she started crying about it being a mess, saying “I didn’t think I’d like you enough to bring you home.”

I cheered her up, ordered us food and put her to bed. She doubled down saying she didn’t want sex that night, and I told her I had no plans because she was much more drunk than I was.

The next morning we went out for breakfast and hung out in town for a while. She still seemed into me, laughing at my lame jokes and being physical etc. She continued suggesting things for us to do for a while so I let it go on. Eventually she said she needed to clean and I said I needed to get home too.

As you can see in the screenshots she has become very slow to respond compared to before.

Today I learned about the point of no return and think I might have fucked this.

I know people rarely fix this, so any tools and suggestions you can give me will be massively appreciated.