Pivot directions?

6 Comments
6 Cmts
Clinton Woodall Avatar

118 Posts (+42)

716 Cmts (+312)

Clinton Woodall Avatar

118 Posts (+42), 716 Cmts (+312)

I matched a high interest chick and pretty smoothly had her lined up for our original date, unfortunately I had to flake and we rescheduled for the following evening (which we discussed as a possibility earlier in the interaction) , the next night she said she was super tired etc, I said “nope you must cum tonight :)” (we had already sexted some and sexual frame was set for the date). We set for 8 but she didn’t text back until 930 saying she had just woke up, she was exhausted with Lols. I didn’t reply, my initial
Thought was well if I responded now after she technically ghosted for a couple hours, then I looked like I was waiting, for some reason thought that would look bad but now I’m thinking I should have said something else and invited her over. Thoughts? Also, here’s where the interaction currently stands and I would appreciate input on what I need to do, do I rebuild attraction first and go from there since it was sexually framed or do I have to slow down a bit now and do investing type moves to get her re engaged? Thanks brobots

0
M

1 Post (+1), 48 Cmts (+13)

Ask her how she is doing?

Dhv with amazing

Build some value and go for the close again

0
M

1 Post (+1), 48 Cmts (+13)

You come across very arrogant. Telling her you fucked a other girl + when she opens up about sexuality you tell her a cocky line. „More than you can count with your two fingers“.

Instead of just saying it and bringing up the value. She is triggered. You have to balance your arrogance out with validating her.

„can I be honest?“

„You’re exactly my type“

Hope that helps

0
Clinton Woodall Avatar

118 Posts (+42), 716 Cmts (+312)

Thanks man for a prompt response!

0
M

1 Post (+1), 48 Cmts (+13)

Sorry bro this comment was not meant for you but I don’t know how to delete it

0
Clinton Woodall Avatar

118 Posts (+42), 716 Cmts (+312)

deleted

0
avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

Hey man. Post the screenshots. Start with the part where you tell her "nope you .." and until where the convo stands now

0
Playing With Fire Logo