Not sure how to correctly progress sexual conversation.

1 Comment
1 Cmt
J

3 Posts (+0)

4 Cmts (+0)

J

3 Posts (+0), 4 Cmts (+0)

Hello,

I would like to ask for help with my conversation from yesterday. We texted for 3-4 screens on tinder and conversation started turning sexual. I am basically begginer in text game and many of my previous matches ended around this point. So I would appreciate any help/suggestions i could get to improve my odds to success. I write in Czech so I will translate it below. It is just part of messages, because we texted about few other unrelated topics simultaneously.

her: I can handle glass of wine or gin and tonic, but I don’t need to drink until I pass out.
Me: Glad to hear it. I just brought amazing wine, which would be pity not to try. But I may assure you that I like girls to be conscious.
her: I am glad that you are not necrophile (4 laughing emoji)
Me: I am not exactly vanilla, but necrophilia is not my style (1 laughing emoticon) Which type of wine do you like?
her: Aren't you vanilla? Weaker white wine is top.
me: No, I am not. Don’t you get that impression?
her: I have no idea what my impressions are (2 laughing emoji)
me: Let’s say, that one of my most favourite activities include handcuffs and my hand print on girl’s ass. (winking emoji)
her: On one side I like this and on the other side I fear it, but that is what I like about it even more (laughing emoji)

I definatelly would like to sexualize even more, but I am affraid that I will send too much too soon and screw it again. Do you have any idea how to progress? Also if you have any points about my text in sample above, I would appreciate them as well.

0
avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

go with "thats what she said (grin emoji)" your doing pretty good so far man, dont be afraid of fucking it up. Try to erase that mindset in generall even if you completley fuck up, your still no worse than when you started. In the situation you can only win. This may seem like semantics but its always important to be "playing to win"

0
Playing With Fire Logo