"not looking for hookups" Profiles

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What to do when I match with these types of profiles, especially if the profile shows obvious signs of promiscuity/sex appeal?

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Many of them are open to casual sex. But they just had bad experiences with some guys in the past.

They matched with guys that

  • disrespected their boundaries
  • were overly sexual, too explicit early on
  • only talked about sex; couldn't hold a conversation on anything else
  • were overall just weirdos and not socially well adjusted

So they put that in their profile to filter out those kinds of guys. Many women do want to have sex, but they want to take some time to vet guys first.

What do you do when you match with them? I'd banter and be funny, but I'd avoid anything sexual too early. Setup a date soon and see how it goes in person.

A lot of women are down to have sex if they're comfortable with a person irl. Whereas they wouldn't be comfortable agreeing to anything sexual with some random guy online who (A) they don't even know they vibe with and (B) could be a weirdo.

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Davis B Avatar

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Frame as if you won’t. Don’t be sexual. Get a gage on the date. Go from there. Simple.

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avilench . Avatar

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Treat these profiles like they are ACTIVELY looking for hookups

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