Hey there, what are you guys thoughts on my profile? I just hired a professional photographer and we shot a bunch of photos (I never take photos myself). I feel like it might be coming off as a little bit too try hard though if they are all professionally shot? Bio might be lacking a bit of purpose as well..
I will let Alex and other comment on he other photos but the white shirt pic is no good. I would definitely dump that. I like the 3rd one but Alex may think it is too posed.
The profile bio needs some work too unless you are not looking to screen women for prudes.
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thanks for the feedback.. hmm I liked the one in the white shirt lol.. what don't you like about it? that I'm looking straight into the camera / makes me look to posed? I think maybe the 3rd one also looks a bit too posed..
for the bio I'm just trying to play as wide of a range as possible, cause hardly getting any matches now.. I think tinder might've screwed me up in the algorithm cause I threw a bunch of money at it with super boosts and platinum right off the bat when creating it.. also I think the tinder pool just sucks over here in Malta..
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Original batch of photos:
1 = too try hard
2 = not good (staring t camera, neck beard)
3 = maybe too try hard (posed) but good (and definitely best of the 3)
Watch AlphaM YouTube videos about where to trip your beard to so you don’t have a neck beard
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I was also thinking of hiring a professional photographer for new photos. Did you notice an increase in matches after this?





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#1 is pretty solid man. Do you have any other options? Also, have you tried trimming your hair to size 1-2?
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cheers for the response! I have trimmed it a couple of times.. looks pretty decent, but I think keeping it this short just looks a little bit better thought I'll have have to trim it to a 1-2 by force though lol... was thinking of getting some tattoos on my arm as well, what are your thoughts? what do you think of pic #2/3 ? I PMed you about private coaching btw, I'd be interested in that if you still offer
I have attached some more photos of the shoot here, apart from that I don't have any photos... pbb should add some activity pic of my kitesurfing / playing poker or something
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Unfortunately none of these really work. Actually, looking back at your hair I was thinking it would be better if you got a skin fade on the sides and let it grow out on top. Have you tried rogaine and/or finasteride? I think also if you can get a bit more hair in the front, it would look a lot better. Also, if you could grow your beard a little bit, that would work too since you have a baby face. And lastly, if you could pack on a bit of muscle, that would go a long way.
Cheers, Alex