My Tinder Photos and Bio
Since I'm new, I'm posting mostly for reference. I know my photos need a lot of work. Bought a ring light and tripod and will do a shoot soon (the first one is one I took the day I got it). I need a hair cut, but also, I've been working out a lot since the pandemic and I'm in an awkward spot where my good (tailored) clothes don't fit me! My shoulders and arms are much bigger. I also feel like I can't buy new clothes any time soon because I expect my body to change a lot more.
My bio is qualifying to the point of exclusion, I think. It's a variation of what gave me success all those years ago on OKC. I've had girls comment on how "cool", "chill", or "like [them]", I come across, but I also bet there's a good amount that are turned off by it. Not sure how I feel about that.
I also want to start a new Tinder with a lower age. I look very young, and I tend to attract young girls. I'm probably being filtered out because of my age.
So on the to-do:
- Update photos. I plan on taking a trip soon and will hopefully come away with some good ones there.
- Update Tinder and sign up for Hinge and Bumble
- Work on my cold approach (have yet to do one), but the ongoing pandemic makes it a bit awkward
Any feedback is welcome. If you've got tips on restarting a Tinder account (this one was started via Facebook), hit me up.
Working out, trying to eat/sleep right, my job, and the current girl I'm sleeping with, keep me very busy, but I'll report any updates as they come.
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Welcome to the mastermind man. How old are you? Because you look super duper young. That can be a problem for you. Have you ever tried to grow some facial hair? That could make a huge difference. Also, get rid of the picture with balloons
Thanks. Have learned a lot from the material.
I'm 38. The top row are photos from the last few weeks, so yeah, I look young. But, no, I can't grow full facial hair.
I'm rehauling every single photo over the next few weeks so it's coming down. But FWIW I've actually gotten good feedback from girlfriends about the balloon photo. Even on Tinder. Would love to hear you deconstruct your reasoning there though, to understand the differences in opinions.
But can you actually elaborate on what you mean by "problem"? A problem on Tinder specifically? Because I've never had a problem attracting woman because of looking young. I've even dated a couple of cougars.
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its both a blessing and a curse you'll be happy about this 10 years from now that you looks so young, but I can see some girls getting turned off by that, I would try Rogane for the beard and see if it helps at all, you can also literally say your age is 28 and no one will be able to tell not saying every girl is going to get turned off by that but some will. in terms of the balloon photo it just has a creepy vibe to it, kinda looks sad, no offense. Hope that helps man when you get the new photos well take a look at those as well
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I've asked some the girls in my orbit and the consensus seems to be the balloon photo is "cute" or "quirky". Interesting. I can see why some in the community would perceive that as negative.
Josh Eves K-Pop, huh? First I've heard that, but that's an interesting recommendation. I don't know much about K-Pop, but I do know girls go absolutely insane over it.