Missed opportunity or play it cool
3 Comments
3 Cmts
4y ago
Met this girl st patricks day at a bar. Went home together and smashed all weekend. Through conversation she said she was going to be very busy this next weekend painting a mural so i let her have some space. Am I playing it right by not texting her all weekend or was her last text a missed opportunity to setup a soft close after she’s done?
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393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
She is definitely DTf. Just make the date happen
29 Posts (+0), 320 Cmts (+156)
Just ask her today how the project went and ask her to show you a pic of it (trust me on this one). Say it looks awesome or dope and then just set your next date.
This girl is super into you. Remember what Alex says, after you hook up treat them like your friends. Would you text one of your friends during or after the project to see how it went if you knew it was important to them? Either way I think is fine just as long as your ask first then move to the date right after.
5 Posts (+2), 7 Cmts (+2)
So she ended up reaching out to me on Monday late morning hoping I had a great weekend which I replied to her a few minutes later saying it was and asking about hers (not bringing up her mural yet) and no response. I waited 24 hours and then hit her up again just asking about the mural and she replied a few minutes later saying she was almost done and loved the message I sent her yesterday. I went fishing today and mentioned that to her and sent her a picture of some fish I caught asking if she would like to help me cook them. She replied back yes and we setup a date Friday night to cook together.