Met once. It went great. She’s flaked twice now. How do I reply from this point?
We hit it off well. It was great sex. She sent me a bruise pic of her ass. I rescheduled instantly. She flaked giving a quiz excuse w no reschedule. I rescheduled & she flaked again. She did text me this the night before our date. I just liked her message for now. What do I do next?
Latest update(I texted her next morning)
Me : breaking my heart bella
Her: i hate to do this to u😩💔
Me: aw. let’s reschedule instead
What now?
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Girls enjoy casual sex too m8. Maybe that's once a week for her, maybe it's once a month. Her excuse seems legit so I'd just wait a week and reengage. Also feel free to show some empathy. It's pretty obvious from your texts you are strictly hitting her up just for sex. It sounds kind of chodey at first, but using empathy in spots like these has really helped round out my game.
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Don't take it personally. She seems into it. Just offer two nights as options and when she schedules, tell her she's going to get a spanking for making you wait with a wink face. She just seems busy. If you brought it in bed, she'll want to see you again
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You could say - "Are you always this difficult to make plans with" . If she tries flaking a third time, I would just move on to another girl
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You need to figure out what the deal is. I would say something like "You've been a bit flakey lately. Is anything on your mind?"
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@avilench .
She gave school as an excuse. Seems legit though. Still not sign of a real schedule. Engage her next week?
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What are usually the reasons why a girl suddenly flakes?