Need your guys' opinion on what I could have done differently during a pull. Met up with a 19 year old chick from tinder and we had dinner and she showed me around a mall close to where we were. After this, we decided to go back to my place and have some wine. The problem was that I picked her up and my place was 45 minutes away. It was getting late and after about 20 minutes of driving her mom started calling her told her to come home. She said her parents were strict and that I had to take her home. I tried to stay calm and said it wouldnt be long but she insisted on going home. I ended up taking her home and just making out. Was this a test? Could I have persisted or was there nothing I could have done?
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Nah. It doesn't sound like a test. Persisting could have resulted in a kidnapping charge lol. So, better to play it safe in a situation like that. Sometimes shit like this will happen. It's just a part of the game.
Logistics were horrible. 45 minutes is a long investment for a first date for a girl. Also, she is 19 years old so could be the truth.
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Even if t was a test, it's very dangerous to start thinking of it in this way. f she's alone with you, and trusting you to drive, she is putting herself in a very vulnerable position. It's imperative to treat that responsibility with respect. Better to always assume that a girl is telling you the truth in these instances. Even if it is just because she is uncomfortable with you, honor what she is saying.
As for the date, you're going to need a pretty fucking good frame to pull a first date back on a 45 minute drive. I suggest planning better. Set the date closer to you, ideally a walk away. I seed the pull in my texting... "I live around the corner, if the vibe is right we can..."