So this chick I added back on snapchat last year. Honestly if she were my girlfriend I would not mind at all! I complimented her story and from there it went like this:
Her: 👀👀
Me: I don’t understand.
A couple days later...
Me: Are you a mom?
Her: LMFAO WHAT
Me: 😂 I thought I saw you with a baby last week
Her: Lmfao that’s my niece
Me: Oh wow I was going to say “Honestly that’s a hot mom.”
Her: 😂😂
Me: “I wonder if she’s down to make another baby?” “Nah way too expensive.”
Then she sent me a drunk voice message later that night:
Her: “I am not a mom. That is so rude. I am so young and way too smart for that shit like we are not about to do that and like I’m not about to do that shit with anyone for like about 3-4 years.”
Me: (voice message as well not drunk) “I am so glad that you are not a young hot mom even though ya know props to you if that happened but like you said that’s not for another like 2-3 years so good luck.”
😂
You sound like you’re having such a good time
Her: Lmfaoo
Thank you !!!
The next day:
Me: Well either way I want to hang out with you
No babies tho
Me: Oh look you survived (to her bathroom selfies after the previous night)
No response
Me: Good job 👍🏻 (to something she did)
Her: Thank you!
A couple days later:
Me: “I love you” Patrick meme to her snap of her legs in a pool on a hot day with a little Patrick sticker
No response
Couple of days later...
Me: Detective Tiger Woman? (Her snap of something cute)
Don’t tell me you know Carol Baskins...
Her: Definitely we’re besties
Me: *comment on another snap of her making brownies
No response
Me: *compliment her on her outfit
Her: Thanks lol
Me: Are you really into fashion?
Her: Kind of
Me: What kind?
We start talking about streetwear and fashion briefly. Doesn’t really lead anywhere.
Then she makes a snap of saying she’s going to start an OnlyFans... 🙃
I tell her not to do that and that I think she’s worth more than just money. I think this is where to energy began to really die down.
Her: Thank you
It was just to get signatures lol
A couple days later I complimented her again then it’s her birthday. I asked if her name was a nickname...
I wished her a Happy Birthday and asked her what she did. I only got a “Thank you!”
Then she commented on something I said or posted she said so dramatic hahaha
I don’t really remember how the conversation steered after that over the next couple of days but it kinda just died down.
One of the last things I said was “Super cool tinder bio.” Didn’t get a response out of that.
Then one night I sent her: You’re so beautiful [name]
I wish you were here
No response
I sent her a link to an article I posted 2 months later.
Nothing
Recently she posted a pic of her saying “Anyone wanna be my sugar daddy?”
I said Maybe and then proceeded to send her a selfie saying “Is this sugar daddy material?”
After doing so I quickly regretted it and deleted the sent message and picture.
I just put “Nvm haha”
Now what? I have no idea what to do and if I could get this girl to be my girlfriend that would be sweet!
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
this is a random girl whom you never met?
Your text game is pretty cringy at times "make another baby" is too forward. But i think the main issue is that you come off as really needed by replying to most of her stories. At this point its 100% done. The only thing you can do is learn from the mistakes for next time :)
24 Posts (+10), 48 Cmts (+8)
Damn dude. I didn’t know I had completely lost my game. This is embarrassing. I used to get with girls all the time. I didn’t know I came off as needy too. I really don’t want to be that way or to be cringy. Wtf. Thank you for the honest feedback. I’ll keep learning.
4 Posts (+1), 18 Cmts (+11)
Yikes man, I'm gonna give it to you straight. This is all the things NOT to do. You aren't following the text game theory, as alex says in his videos, it should be a dance. This is just you pushing and pushing which creates the impression that you are needy and have low self worth, whether real or not.
You also said you wanted her as a GF without seemingly knowing her and also you haven't seemed to change her mind after the sugar baby post (joke or not, there's truth in every joke and humour gives good indications of someones true nature IMO) I may be reaching too far, but there are some signs of some serious inner game problems.
edit: and oh man an only fans? I didn't see that... at best this girl wants your attention and at worst your money.
24 Posts (+10), 48 Cmts (+8)
Yep. This was all way before I knew about PWF. Thankfully I have learned my lesson.
88 Posts (+49), 108 Cmts (+15)
Too needy man, she seemed interested but I thought pushed her away, and too many compliments