Finally got out of a short dry spell very unexpectedly tonight. Haven’t gotten laid in close to almost a month.. it’s been driving me a bit crazy. Trying to get over some limiting mindsets with cold approach. I have some black pill ideologies.

Probably am going to have to say farewell to a rotation girl and haven’t had many new high probability leads to work with. Additionally, I beta tested some of my new photos on Facebook Dating after getting the app back on my phone.. nothing. Swapped them out with the deep fakes & matches started coming in again. Turns out although my photos are solid, they lack relatability entirely. It’s been mad exhausting.. but what must be done must be done. I am obsessive with this shit.

Additionally, a note on retention. & This is just my lesson learned from this last rotation girl. The dynamic between you and your girl has to be evolving on some level each time you meet. Their has to be a feeling like it’s “going somewhere” and that it’s not at all “stagnating”

You may have seen her once or twice, but she’s still on the market & you’re still competing. Their is no room to get comfortable. Especially if their aren’t massive SMV discrepancies between you and the girl. This is where having a great IG that demonstrates your high value lifestyle comes in. A girl can only know so much from what your lifestyle is like from what you tell her and spending time with you.

If your dynamic between you and the girl is just fuck buddies, your sex better be on point. If you two are just meeting to have sex and routinely nothing else, then she’s only going to keep you around for as long as the sex is good. If that’s all you want from a girl, you have to be sure you’re giving her good sex unless she’s a complete slut.

You can be good at sex & a girl will keep coming back for a while, but if that’s all the relationship is rooted in is just the sex, & theirs no other type of connection at all, those things are not going to last long. Theirs a shelf life there.
Build a mentorship dynamic, introduce new elements into kinky activities, take them to places.

Tinder: Nothing out of the ordinary. I’m always screening for girls who’re DTF by way of discussing how close we are to each other to begin with. If they bite on that, I move into screening. Banter is not something I get excited about at times when you can’t tell if the lead is going to be flakey or not.

What was beautiful is when she screened me and I was able to move it forward. She literally asked “How spontaneous are you” Translation: “I want you to f*** me tonight please” With situations like this I do not wine close. Thanks to Malik I just say “Good. Why don’t you come over and we can have some fun then” No need to wine close if the tone has been established that you two are gonna meet to hook up. But that has to be established from screening or some other way of doing so. She later told me in bed that she was really horny tonight.

Thankfully the FT was not a problem & she headed right over. Also told me in person that had I not offered the FaceTime she would not have met with me as she wasn’t going to come over in the middle of the night.

Date: She comes over. Was dressed in a crop top & yoga pants. She was very social and had good energy. Immediately once she got in the elevator I walk towards her & get close, putting my arms around her waist. Treating her like a girl I’ve already been seeing for a while is a move I do & some girls either like it or call me “aggressive” Great move for raccoons who suck at making a move. When doing so, we kissed right away. This girl was ready.

Led her to my apartment & we started talking about random shit. Mainly Marvel orientated things & then talking to her in my Thor voice which she got a laugh out of. Eventually sex happened & we went two rounds. I finished very quick first & although I was still hard she wanted to not keep going. Then we went a second time & she asked I wrap up. Which made no sense considering I was just inside this girl raw. Made her cum a lot based off her reaction it seemed.

Mainly talked about our jobs & then her Tinder experiences. Said how a lot of them seem very “flighty” Just seem to “come and go” She said that usually she meets guys for drinks or food and doesn’t typically just come straight over but only did because again I offered the FaceTime and she could tell I was cool and normal.

Made plans to go get tacos at a place nearby Sunday. Will see what happens. Can’t tell if she wanted just a ONS or not. I’ll be fine either way.

“My heart is only loyal to the game”