Haven’t really been posting a lot of my LRs as of recent. Mainly because I’ve been using my own opener lately (not the one you see here) & don’t want it burned into the ground and misused by everyone. But also because I don’t think it matters as much to me anymore. I use to be relentless about posting LR and probably will still be but am gonna be more selective. Their are some personal lessons in here, at least for me & perhaps for others.

Text: I was honestly surprised that this one ended up happening considering their wasn’t that much investment prior. Even used Malik’s text “Why don’t you come & see me then?” Shit is funny as fuck.

I had a lot of premature excitement leading up because this was definitely one of the more higher quality girls in terms of looks & was hopeful.

Over Tinder I hadn’t even wine closed. When we moved to text I did & even offered to pick her up as a way to alleviate flakiness. It was also my way of cementing the date.

She insisted on exchanging pics due to her catfish concern & of course I had to FaceTime. It was short & sweet but she had a really good vibe and I made her laugh by doing a Mrs. Doubtfire impression which she found priceless after she told me that she was playing mom for the night. All was set for the date the next day.

Date: We meet & I lead her to my apartment. Something I have been doing differently is taking the girls to the balcony to have wine with them first. Usually I just bring them straight to my bed & we have the wine there & I escalate soon but been doing this & taking my time now and not allowing my horniness to just radiate from my body & try to close so soon.

I’ve also been switching up my wardrobe presentation too. Usually it was a casual hoodie & backwards hat with my Black Chelseas (strong fuckboy vibes) but now I’m rocking a Ramones tank top, Black fedora, & Doc Martens on these dates. I think it gives off more of a Rockstar vibe. Anyways.

We just start vibing back & forth. She had really good energy & even told me how I’m so energetic & That I seem like fun. Turns out she’s fresh out of a 9 yr relationship. Apparently her Tinder experiences have been one time things because she says she’s met guys but never hears or sees them again or they just fizzle out.

I can’t remember what it was I said but she said how she wanted me to serenade the people downstairs & I said “Ah. Is that your way of saying you want me to sing for you” & Then I made a joke how she’d have to make me feel like Jack & Rose on the Titanic. Except I’m Rose, & she’s Jack lol. & Then I fall into her arms & she starts laughing. I was like “Gotta make me feel wanted.. needed” (Picked this up from Alex) & Then she was like “Oh, like this?” & then leaned in & kissed me.

We also bonded over our mutual interest for Marvel & Star Wars which was dope. She had a Star Wars tattoo & from there we started nerding out. We both shared a mutual love for Spider-Man as it’s her favorite MCU character. I said how we should recreate the Spider-Man upside down kiss scene & have someone stand nearby with a water hose over us to make it look like we’re in the rain lol.

Nevertheless we start making out & then I literally just say “Let’s go inside it’s hot out here” She complies and then we go inside.

From there it was smooth sailing. She was so passionate especially when she was on top. Felt amazing & we fucked multiple rounds throughout the night. She later told me that I could be more rough with her & that she likes pain. I then opened up the conversation on sexual topics & a lot has yet to be explored since she didn’t have great sex with last guy she was with. Told me that I definitely fell into the “better sex” category. She also didn’t even know how to cuddle. Told me guys she’s met usually just end the sex & call it a night. I gave genuine compliments about what I liked about her.

Told her what my favorite part of the sex was & she was laughing & said “Like it’s a movie lol” She was cool. Heard me sing in my jukebox of voices & shared with her my re-enactment voice over of the Lion King. Been also letting my guard down in terms of actually showing these women that side of me. I think I’ve tried too long to hold this “dominant facade” that I can’t really show the other actual facets of my personality out of fear the girl may not take me seriously or something.

Plans for the weekend came up organically & because she was practically saying she’d be free we went ahead & made plans for the weekend.