LR # 4 - Finally experienced my personal 9
Date: 5/6/2021
Girl: 23 year old Italian babe with perky ass
Dating App: Tinder
Screenshots: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1P30PwPDJ_v2YB5f9opRVCL7ma3vC4FNk?usp=sharing
Summary:
First I want to start off by saying a disclaimer, as I was about to put it in her, she suddenly didn't feel in the mood to fuck and she ended up leaving, but she did give me good head (for the purposes of this group, because there was a mutual agreement for sex initally and because I put my d*ck in her mouth, I'll count it as an LR; but I'm not gonna count it towards my personal LR, I'm still at 2 laycount). So I'm posting this anyway for you guys 🙂
Text game was very straightforward, using just everything I've learned from the blueprint, LRs, and from things I remembered in Erik's top-notch coaching. On the app, it was simple Opener > Vibe > Sexualization > Screen > Close. Also did some reassurance handling because she seemed inexperienced hooking up on Tinder although she told me in person she's hooked up before. After the number close, went straight to scheduling the date and sexualized afterwards (sent her a fake dick pic). Although I fucked it up slightly, used Jeff's routine and got her to send pics.

So the disappointing part - the date:
When she arrived at my place, she looked way better in person (definitely the highest SMV I've been with thus far - a 9) and her ass cheeks were hangin out of her shorts. I started by asking her how the drive was, how was work, etc. Offered her a bottle of water with some Goldfish and Sour Patch Kids as she wanted lol. We started by cuddling and Netflix on the bed, her ass felt so fucking perky and nice. Then she wanted me to massage her a bit (booty/shoulder/back massage) which I proceeded to do. She was asking me if I had oil (i did not unfortunately) so it was a dry massage. What I didn't really appreciate was that she was the type of person that wanted me to do WXYZ in order to please her, which I guess didn't match with me and honestly, turned me off a bit. She definitely wanted the Fifty Shades of Grey experience (wanted bed restraints, had blindfolds, and was playing with her vibrators). She kept telling me frequently to lower/raise the music volume, adjust the temperature, etc. taking my focus off of her and putting pressure on me to turn her on. Afterwards I asked her to suck my dck, and it was erect when she was sucking it. Then she laid on her back and used her vibrator on her clt some more while blindfolded. She asked me to put on a condom and as I did, my d*ck got soft again 🙁 but she was blindfolded so like, I just kept sucking on her tits until it got hard but then suddenly, she felt she wasn't in the mood. Could have been so many factors as to why (took my time to put it in, not the dick she was expecting). Early on in the date she did have trouble peeing and she told me that she was spotting (maybe a combination of this and her anxiousness is what got her in a bad mood??).

So I realize I have performance anxiety (on top of taking Libido-Max pills) and is something that I need to deal with.. I need to prioritize my sexual health and sleep more for sure. Although I was super annoyed and feel kinda down while I write this, I was extremely grateful to have been able to match and get together with a 9.. (these were the kinds of girls who wouldn't even bat an eye on me in high school/college) Anywho, seeing my fuckbuddy tonight and plus I still got another fuck-date tomorrow with an asian girl from Hinge lol.
More to cum.

Takeaway(s):
Really simple.. follow the text-game framework/sequence (Erik made a post about this: https://www.facebook.com/.../permalink/1306106206450585)
Know how to reassure girls who are nervous and just exploring the hook-up world on dating apps. (lots of objection/reassurance lines in the PWF Blueprint)
Don't let go of your purpose of meeting up
Read Sex-God method and buy fucking BDSM equipment. That shit should be ready on hand.