Love date scheduled
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First I just wanted to say the pwf product changed my life. I just wanted to share this text exchange and get your opinion on some missed opportunities I could have used. I know I am not that good yet but I feel that I am so much better than before I discovered pwf, so I thank you for this. I would love to have honest feedback on this text exchange
Few things I think I did good:
Giving her space and a chance to invest and not forcing her to reply by double texting (which definitely would lower my value)
Withdrew my attention when she said shes busy.
I could tell she didn't reply to me after this to test how I would react after she said she was busy. I love this because now I know for a fact that she wants to meet me to fuck (she even said shes getting waxed) and not just for a quickie 1-2 hours to eat Lunch together. I will always avoid meeting a girl to eat from now on. Straight to my place or nearby bar or bust!
After she gave an excuse about being busy I just said "Aww ok" and didn't text the whole day until she replied and pretty much rewarded me saying "I just want to say goodnight to the sweetest guy". I don't think she's experienced a guy doing this
What I did wrong & got stuck on:
I think I should stop with the good morning text and either she messages me first or I send a happy monday meme instead. Normally I don't do this but she is giving me compliance/IOIs so should I look at it as rewarding her?
When I went sexual, I think she didn't know what to say, she fell asleep and then replied to me late saying "I wish I can be with you right now" but I already fell asleep at this time so I replied the next morning. Since she fell asleep when I sent the sexualized text about kissing her neck and shoulders. It must have been that boring it made her fall asleep pretty much.
Heres where things get confusing for me. She asked me to sleep over on Sat night and I didn't really know how to respond. I mean part of me wants her to, but I think it is too fast for sleepovers. I didn't want to say its too fast and then she tries to use it against me and say "then we shouldnt have sex its too fast." But I think sleepovers are for more relationship type. And Im trying to have a lover frame not a boyfriend.
I didn't know how to communicate this so I just said we'll talk more about it in person and scheduled the meet for Sunday instead.
How would you have handled it without making her feel bad that I don't want her to sleep over? Or is this something I should consider for us to sleep together and spend the morning together?
And when she wrote that long message about her story getting waxed, I didn't really know what to say. I probably missed a big opportunity here to sexualize. I just said "Getting nice and smooth for our date I see" and she tried to play it off as she normally does it for good hygiene but I know she's doing it to prepare for our love date which is amazing because I plan to give her multiple oral orgasms. Should I have mentioned this when she said this?
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First off, I'm glad to hear you are loving the pwf product man! I always enjoy hearing stories of people implementing the material and skyrocketing their results.
A key piece of information that was missing: how did you meet this girl and how long have you known her. Have you ever met her in real life? Is she your booty call? Is she from tinder? This is very key info
You text her more romantically then I would text my girlfriend tbh. Nothing wrong with that per se, but if you are trying to strictly stay friends with benefits then you are going to give her mixed signals. I'm not surprised the idea that she brought up the idea of a sleepover, your texting style led her to believe that you are likely interested in her romantically as well as sexually. I do think that rejecting the sleepover was a mistake. Even if you are trying to keep it purely sexual, there is nothing wrong with doing sleepovers. I've done them several dozen times. Sometimes when a chick is meeting you late, she just wants to stay the night so she doesn't feel like a slut going home smelling like cum at 4 am. I would have responded with "Of course (devil face)"
One thing you can immediately start doing is implementing some humor into your text game that will make the overall vibe less lovey dovey. For instance, when she told you that waxing story I would have said "Oh damn, should have just called you in, these strong hands would get the job done in no time". Or when she was talking about yoga I would have said "ah, gotta practice that downward doggy (devil face)".
Also, inviting the chick for lunch is always no bueno (unless of course she is a girl you are seeing and you legitimately want to see her for lunch). That is another thing that screams boyfriend vibes. And lastly, your sexting could definitely use some improvement, it just doesn't sound like something that would turn a woman on. Check out some of the love reports or the guys on the website for more examples of this.
Cheers, Alex