longer term game question
hey alex would appreciate your opinion on this...if i get into a relationship with a "party girl" yet i'm a homebody, should i be ok with her going out to the bars/clubs without me š¤ or should i be worried about the constant attention she'll get there. for context she goes with friends, but whether it's guys in her group or just randoms in the club my instinct is to get possessive. is this weak beta behavior? how did you set up your relationship with your current girlfriend? is it open on her end as well? if so then how do you feel about potentially other dudes fucking the girl you really care about/have feelings for? i'm all for the fuckboy lifestyle but when it comes to a girl you fall for is the extra pussy worth being stressed about your girl being promiscuous?
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Honestly really depends on the level of trust you have in the relationship. You should both feel comfortable enough to talk about what you both want in a relationship. If you don't feel comfortable with her going out without you because you think she will cheat on you (why is that? possibly some red flags you've seen) then that's not solid base to start off a serious relationship with someone. Is what you want an open relationship on your end only? That is something you should be able to sit down and discuss with her. Be prepared to honestly discuss concerns and objections that might come from her because not everyone is okay with this type of relationship. Every relationship is different.Just talk to her.
btw, it has absolutely nothing to do with "beta behavior." It is more common than you think for a man to not like a woman who sleeps around a lot when considering her for a serious relationship. It is the same for women as well too. I for one get very jealous and would never be okay with "sharing" my partner as I know it would drive me crazy.