Hey guys,

I have no problem running a solid first date and pulling girls to my place. But in about 50% of cases they reject the kiss.

Currently, I try to play psychologist ("I feel a vibe, but something is blocking you") to find her logical objection. They usually reply with standard excuses like, "I don't kiss on the first date" or "I need to know you better."

I know I need to build more sexual tension before the pull. But in the exact moment she says no, what’s the optimal move? How do I react without losing my frame or looking butt-hurt? Should I do a takeaway, end the date politely, and try for a second one, or can I turn it around right there?