Two cents?
So, this girl seemed pretty openminded from the beginning.
Not too emotional but curious one
Reached upto a point where I set the date but she flaked last minute. I know she's submissive and has no concerns at all. Dont think anything went wrong too.
The last ss has the wine which was the one I recommended since she's a wine rookie (Tryna make her envious).
Wtf is going on here??
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yea man i took a look at the last 2 screenshots, generally speaking you dont want to invite a girl to a restaurant, I always say plan A is drinks are your place and plan B is drinks at a bar nearby. Also, your last text was overkill. You don't want to reward her flaking by sending several text. I would have just said "okay, feel better" when i doubt just keep things simple.
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Suggestions? I think its moving forward again
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i wouldnt have said about when she feels 100% cause now you have to wait a bit longer. But, i would just like her message and then reenegage in a few days. Get the conversation going and see how shes doing and then try to reseed the date.
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She’s not a cold bitch, she’s probably just intimidated or is legitimately not feeling well
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A couple of tips, stop saying hmm at the beginning it gets very repetitive and it undermines you. Also, try to move the interaction to text and close faster instead of going on and on about each other's kinks. That stuff will come out much easier when you guys talk in person, plus you'll be able to try things etc. I think she's just legiatelmly feeling bad and try to go the reschulde. Also don't double text ("not trick question") until you give her a couple days to respond, she might have been busy. Goodluck dude
She seems on board my man. Just be careful about being too aggressive on the close. I think this is a situation where you should pull back a little before making another attempt.
your close wasn't optimal, she never really seemed on board with meeting up you just dropped the restaurant and assumed it was on. she didn't seem that invested/excited about meeting.
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She initially agreed on the day and time. So it was just the matter of setting up venue which I did very casually
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Dude I havent decided she's a cold bitch, just skeptical. And no, I love women just like you do. Do enlighten on detail though, what makes you think its misogynist?
I just went for the date close acc to the vibe we set up, I agree it might not be the most proper..