My insta is public and totally gives away my job which I keep a mystery on my profile ; since it is an extremely common job here (roughly 10% of population is in the industry).

Do you connect your insta so it shows on profile?

• I think this is worst option since it lets girl judge SMV

How about just adding your handle?

• Believe it could allow the women who want social proof to research and verify you’re wanted by others.

I’ve considered making my profile private 80% of the time to leave mystery of my life and only going public when I post.

I have 3k followers and follow 300 people, not much fans but it’s gotten a handful of comments about being better than average guys page.

How do you all feel on the topic?
Excited to hear all perspectives.