Hey guys. So things are working out. I’ve gotten my text game better than it has ever been (I am still very much a beginner but I’m better than I’ve ever been) and I am starting to talk to and go out with a few girls. Frankly, these girls are hotter than others ive been out with before and I credit a lot of that to learning text game; I’m excited as hell.

But alas. old narratives kick in. The old thoughts of “she’s just going to flake on you” or “she’s talking to other guys way better than you” creep back in. This happens and I get in my head and really struggle to get out of it. Then I feel like I have to do something so I send a text I shouldn’t and it just spirals from there. I’m very aware of it, and I’m working HARD on being better this time around, hence I’m talking to you guys about it.

Have any of you struggled with this? If so, what mindsets helped you overcome it and what would you suggest I do to overcome it?