im in love help
12 Posts (+9), 229 Cmts (+105)
hi everyone. I havent been on this sub in a while and a lot has happened in my life since. I was living with 3 girls and was basically in love with 2 of them. Couldnt decide how to tell them but I just did it today. Im honestly lost rn becuase im just so in love with the one girl that I've been having a hard time thinking straight. Im all over the place and its effecting or affecting my life. Im very young and well off for my age, but man, when im with her i feel like im not. I feel like im fading into a great nothingness but im enjoying it all at the same time. I neeed help lol. Any advice on what to do here. Words cant describe the way I love this girl. What a pussy I've become.
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There's nothing wrong in loving a girl. But if it's a pattern, then you have attachment issues. You have to focus on distracting yourself with activities/things you like to do so you don't constantly think about her
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What is exactly is the issue? You confessed now let them make up their minds about it.
Two at a time is overkill unless they are openly bi they won't go into a throuple with you.
I think you gotta make a choice, even if you have feelings for both just get involved with one and see if the right choice was made.
And if you get turned down best thing is to go out there and initiate something with someone new. It's hard to see outside your own circle when you're young but trust me the options are endless