If you're too nervous I'd understand?

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The chosen one Avatar

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I think it's going well but just in case she doesn't respond what is the best approach for my next message. Update - No response yet

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avilench . Avatar

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dude why would ask about her place idf you got a place of your own? THat should always be plan A. I think now shes probably a tad sketched out or confused. Whenever a girls asks where? just invite her to your place no need to ask her about hers. You can wait till thursdays and say "if your too nervous i understand"

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The chosen one Avatar

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Fuck. Yeah I only did it cause I didn't think she'd be willing to drive the distance cause we're kinda far

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Why are you being so indirect. A confident guy who knows he's the shit would've said "Good. Let's split a bottle of wine over a nice dinner at my place. Does X time work for you?" As simple as that. Stop being indirect and beating around the bush. Now just wait for her to respond, give her a time and place and get off the phone. If she refuses or flakes, whatever you don't care, if you got that girl's number, you can just get another one and give HER the time of her life. From your texting I can tell you're too outcome dependant, it's needy, and it will show in your attitude. Change your mentality from "I don't want to fuck it up with her, I don't think she'll want to come over to my place and have sex with me" to "I have no doubt this woman likes me. And if not, so what ? I have plenty other options... Whatever happens is no big deal to me"

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The chosen one Avatar

536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)

Yeah I see what you're saying thanks for the advice

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