I matched with this girl yesterday on tinder. I added her snap and started it off with "hey trouble". Worst mistake I made with this girl. And I ruined the conversation! I need some coaching and help on this one.
First off, did you screenshot that after did she unadd you or block you? I asked because that happened to me and I posted a Snapchat screenshot on this app as well because Snapchat doesn’t allow you to screenshot without being noticed. If you matched with her on Tinder, then hit her up on Tinder first. Never hit up a girl from Tinder on their social media first just because if you see it in their bio even if it says to hit them up on their social media they’re probably attention whores, clout chasers, or a waste of time. This goes for all girls you meet on tinder, text them on Tinder first because if they say that they want you to hit them on social media in their bio then they’re probably either a waste of time, a attention whore, or just want clout on that social media platform. So with that being said..........Secondly, never open a girl on Snapchat with “Hey trouble.” You should always start a conversation on Snapchat by asking the girl how she’s doing or how has her day been because it’s showing investment. On Snapchat if you’re not responding to something on her story to start the conversation you should always start by asking how is she doing. Hey trouble is more of a Tinder opener. That line only works on girls who are actually trouble. Whether if that means that it’s a girl that likes to drink, a girl that likes to smoke, a girl that likes to party, or the girl that seems like she’s opened to having sex.......those are the only girls that you should be using “Hey trouble” on. Other openers like, “Hey, I like your style” is for girls that have something in their photos that catches your eye and “Hey, potential lover” is for girls that have similarities to you. This is a problem that I see in a lot of guys. They always think that “Hey Trouble” is a opener that’s going to start off a conversation with every girl. Hey trouble shouldn’t be used for every girl that you meet. You shouldn’t be using those three openers all of the time in rotation with one another. You should only use one of them if you can’t think of anything else. Your opener should always be something either based on one of their photos you like or their bio but to make it 9/10 times easier you should start off with openers about their photos first and then maybe get into their bio. Thirdly, never apologize for something if you didn’t do anything wrong. Your issue was that the opener you used didn’t work for that specific girl. It’s not your fault. If you use Hey trouble on a girl that has no relationship to trouble she’s either going to say that she’s a good girl or she’s going to make it seem like you were disrespectful. It doesn’t mean that you actually disrespected her. It makes it seem like you’re a Simp when you’re trying to be respectful. Don’t try to be anything, just be you. If you didn’t do anything really fucked up like say something homophobic because she’s bi, called her something racist, or say anything that would be disrespectful to a friend that you don’t view sexually then don’t apologize. It doesn’t make you a simp to apologize for things like that. Finally, you brought up her occupation on Snapchat. Like I said before, if you match with her on Tinder don’t message her on her social media. You shouldn’t bring up something that you see on her Tinder and talk about it on her social media. Keep everything on Tinder and if she decides to move it to a different app then do that but the goal is to get her number and meet up. She saw you as a bitch when you apologized so asking if she could do your nails probably made it worse. Hopefully, she doesn’t know who you are on Tinder. My suggestion to you is if she is still matched with you on Tinder, start all over from scratch this time making a original opener based on one of her photos.
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Thanks, also I messaged her on tinder 1st, but got no response. Also the screens hot is from last night I believe and I think she still has me added.


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She's either a bitch. Or testing you. Either way, I'm definitely not a fan of your response man. Don't give in so easily. I would have just said "I prefer trouble" or "What are you gonna do about it?". If she's a bitch, then she'll unmatch. No big loss, and if it's a shit test, you'll pass. In addition to that, your last text was pretty weird. Which would explain why she stopped responding
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Thanks Man. Will definitely learn from this mistake