Some girls give me eye contact and body language where I know I can escalate. Others don't. I've found that if I try to force getting physical with the latter they usually reject it, so I try to wait for the signals that they're ready.

However, I don't know how to get them ready.

• I sexualize verbally, and the girls either giggle or don't react.
• I touch where appropriate, which means much less on the non-responsive girls.
• Eye contact as well, but the non-responsive girls don't really reciprocate.

None of those are consistently effective, even after she's come back to my place, even after multiple dates, and even when she clearly likes me.

Happened twice in the last 2 days with girls I met during the day and brought back home.

Any advice on how to get more girls more in the mood?