How to not be a “nice guy” in public
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1y ago
So I recently noticed a pattern with my dating life: first dates at my place go well, but public first dates almost never lead to a second date. I figured out that it’s because I’m terrible at building sexual investment in public. It usually is just platonic conversation the whole time, and even though it often ends in a kiss at the end of the date, they’ve seemed surprised a little too often for my liking.
Any suggestions on how to improve on that front would be greatly appreciated.
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It's not so much sexual investment as it is sexual tension and escalation. My advice is something you already know probably. You need to practice flirting and physically escalating much more aggressively. Check out the vid I have, it's called something like "how to make any conversation flirty" where I do the demo.
Also, you can escalate logistically. Essentially this means inviting the girl to your place. And lastly, dont save the kiss to the end, try to pursue it mid date.
You will probably massively benefit from joining my mastermind group. There were multiple guys who had the same issue and overcame it.